One of the most beautiful things about the Pride and Joy Foundation is that it is “striving to build self-awareness within and safety for LGBTQ+ families and their allies.” Let’s take a second to talk about how important allies are (hint: so freakin’ important!) to the LGBTQ+ community. Let’s think about it this way - even if every member of a marginalized community banded together to fight for their cause, they would still be up against a majority, making change near impossible. For any marginalized community, having strong ally support is integral in the fight for equality because allies allow for the community to show up in numbers and to prove that their cause isn’t only their own.
But what does it mean to truly be an ally? Queer sex educator and trauma specialist Jimanekia discussed in an Instagram video post her position on allies. Though her post specifically references non-Black allyship within the Black...
Editor's Note: On September 22, 2017, Sarah Hegazi attended a concert for Mashrou' Leila whose lead singer, Hamed Sinno, is openly gay. She was arrested along with a group of others for waving a rainbow flag in support of LGBT rights. Her arrest coincided with Egypt's zero-tolerance crackdown response to end public support for LGBT rights in the country. She recalled being jailed, beaten, and abused by inmates.
Sarah (Zarah) was granted asylum in Canada but lived with the PTSD from her experience.
“To my siblings,
I tried to survive and I failed, forgive me.
To my friends,
The experience was cruel and I’m too weak
to resist it, forgive me.
To the world,
You were awfully cruel, but I forgive.”
This is the last note left behind by Zarah Hijazi, an Egyptian LGBTQ rights activist who committed suicide last week in Canada. She was raped and tortured in the prison by the US-backed Sisi government for her...
Editor's Note: I met Sheena with The Lesbian Review when I did a podcast series with her "Ask a Conversion Therapy Survivor". During the show, it became obvious that I had no idea there was an entire genre of literature based on women loving women. (baby gay, right here). I realized I was really missing out and I asked Sheena to give us a list of the best intro books. I've finished one of these on the list and I've already started on my second. I have to say, I rarely read fiction (self-growth junkie) but these fun books are so fun and so relaxing to dive into. I am SO glad I found Sheena and The Lesbian Review.
The Lesbian Review brings you a selection of 3 Coming Of Age Stories To Make Your WLW Heart Happy.
These are three novels that we enjoyed tremendously and recommend to readers who are looking for women loving women books.
Floodtide by Heather Rose Jones
The streets are a perilous place for a...
Now that quarantine in my state is slowly starting to lift, I was excited to visit my local Target last week that I hadn’t been to in months (and by “local” I mean an hour away, because in Idaho that’s considered local). After walking up and down a few aisles, I realized that there was absolutely no Pride display or any Pride merchandise being sold.
When I lived in New Jersey, every year, a huge Pride display greeted customers as soon as they walked in the door. This led me down a rabbit hole of thoughts surrounding Pride merchandise and the economics behind it. Some thoughts that came to mind -
This week, here at the Pride and Joy Foundation, we are exploring the theme of "PRIDE: What does it mean to you?" In this essay our intern Gopika offers her take as an Indian woman...
Pride month 2020 has been flagged off and it’s time to celebrate the equality, visibility, and dignity of LGBTQ people all over the world.
I think I got it wrong by using the phrase ‘All over the world’. While Pride parades are in full swing and people celebrate the existence and acceptance of their identity in countries like the U.S, France, Canada, Belgium, etc, there is a harsh truth on the other side that there are numerous countries which still criminalize homosexuality and deny LGBTQ identity. There are people who still march on streets amidst violence from authority just like the Stonewall riot. For them, nothing has changed yet.
As an Indian girl, I grew up hearing the term “Unnatural relationships” as whispers and...
This week, here at the Pride and Joy Foundation, we are exploring the theme of "PRIDE: What does it mean to you?" In this essay our intern Gabby offers her take...
It’s June, and that means PRIDE month is officially underway! For many members of the LGBTQ+ community, this is often a chance to celebrate PRIDE by attending various celebrations that often include navigating through crowds and crowds of allies and other members of the community who have come together to honor queerness in all its forms. There is so much power in having that visual representation in front of us, assuring us that no matter what we may have experienced, we are certainly not alone. This year, however, with the world in the middle of a pandemic, PRIDE might look a little bit different.
Just because we may not be able to be together as a community to physically celebrate this year, that definitely doesn’t mean that PRIDE should be forgotten. In fact, I think this is giving...
When I was 38 I had to come out to my Dad. He was 72. I had been married to a man for 18 years, I had four of his six grandchildren. I can't imagine the bombshell that was for him.
My Dad was born in New England and he spent his entire childhood there, son of an accountant and the local Masonic lodge leader. After high school, he joined the Coast Guard. After that he was an ironworker, building almost every bridge on the seacoast.
There's an infamous story, happened way before I was born. He and his crew were working in the 70s on a skyscraper in Hartford, CT. On their lunch break, they unwittingly wandered into a gay bar. You can imagine how that went down. The cops were eventually called to break up the fight and Dad was thrown in jail. My mom left him there for the night. (I LOVE THIS STORY, my dad was in JAIL, you guys.)
In an effort to save their marriage which was on the rocks from the...
As a straight person, I have always been curious to know about homosexual relationships, how they meet, how they hook up, how they know whether the other person is straight or not, and a lot of ‘HOWs’ to be honest. It doesn’t mean peeping into others’ private life, but just curious to know how someone could get attracted to a person of same-sex and have a crush on him/her without being sure of their sexuality. How can they approach the other person being unsure where to stand, in the border of friendship and romance?
While all these questions excited me, I started thinking of it in a more focused way. I realized that these are not only the concerns of LGBTQ people but everyone out there including myself. How can I crush on a man without knowing his sexuality?
Love is in its most beautiful and purest form when an individual finds their soulmate in another individual regardless of their gender.
So, let’s accept the fact that LGBTQ...
Picture this: You grab your drink from the bar (or coffee place or soda shop counter). You turn around and do a visual sweep to find the rest of your group. Instead of finding your friends, you lock eyes with a stunning stranger. You start chatting and laughing and boom! That moment turns into the rest of your lives together. I know so many people dream of a whirlwind romance like this one. Let’s be real, though. These situations are rare enough as it is, and even more rare for members of the LGBTQ+ community. How do we know for sure if those stunning strangers are actually into us or just eyeing our cute outfits?
Thus, the world of online dating began, and since more and more people are meeting on the Internet or apps anyway, why not continue to use technology to our benefit during quarantine? Enter distance dating! I am married, so this option is off the table for me, but I have to admit, as someone...
As a middle school teacher in New Jersey, I was fortunate enough to work in the most diverse city in the nation and had little worry about my students finding out about my sexuality. When I got married a few months into the school year, my 7th graders quickly found out it was to a woman. As a middle school teacher, fostering relationships with each of my students was a crucial aspect of classroom management. The more I was able to connect with them beyond the curriculum, the more likely I was to be able to focus on my curriculum during class hours. So much of this connection, I quickly realized, was based on the intrinsic knowledge that my classroom was a safe space. I had no idea how many students would crave the safe space that my classroom offered, or how many students I would encounter who were questioning, coming to terms with, or struggling with their sexuality. I am honored to have been able to offer my students a judgment-free zone in...